Tuesday, August 11, 2015

privilege continued AND what privilege really means

 Because if you don't see how seemingly different types of oppression are similar and interconnected (that is, the roots are the same but the affected party may be different), then you won't be as effective in whatever advocacy work you're doing.

The above is part of a comment I left on a previous privilege post back in January, and is something that has fascinated me for a long time. That is, how folk can recognize their own particular form of oppression well enough, yet be seemingly privilege-blind when it comes to other forms. Before I continue though, I found an excellent article recently on what privilege really means, which I would encourage you to read because privilege by its very essence can be so damn hard to see, especially when we're the ones reaping its benefits.

(pausing while you finish reading)

While it may be tempting to think that once we recognize one form of oppression all the other ones are instantly easier to see, unfortunately, that's not the case. While some well-meaning vegans, for example, have been quick to point out that "all lives matter" when they see #BlackLivesMatter, do we really have the right to do this if we don't understand white privilege better, and recognize how we're complicit in a racist system? And how do you deal with or prioritize multiple oppressions when all of them have an impact? 

Privilege and oppression can seem almost limitless, and perhaps they are. Are we all endowed with privilege blinders? I'm beginning to think so. Let me illustrate with a few more examples. One of the first labels I adopted and still wear is that of feminist. Considered a dirty and threatening word by far too many, feminism as its basic goal seeks gender equality. That's it in a nutshell. So why every single person isn't in favour of this concept baffles me. Wouldn't allowing everyone to be their true selves instead of conforming to rigid and outdated gender stereotypes be a win-win for all? (I'm not being naive here, as I realize that many individuals and institutions benefit greatly from inequality despite its high price.)

And while you would think that those who identify as feminist would seek equality for all women, this isn't always the case. Women of colour have often argued that feminism doesn't include them. Same for those who aren't middle or upper class. Some women who are sex workers say that feminists too often portray all of them as victimized prostitutes, rather than women who are choosing how they earn their income. There are also those who dispute that all pornography is automatically bad or demeaning. They would argue that it is sexism, not sex that should be demonized, and some feminists are making their own pornography. Then there are feminists who are accused of being transphobic, a claim that's difficult to refute when some of them insist that only women-born-women qualify as real women, and that only they should be granted access to women's and feminist spaces. 

Another group that vegans often lament for not seeing the oppression of other animals are members of the LGBT community. And it IS frustrating when folk who legitimately fight for the ending of oppression based on sexual orientation don't feel there's anything wrong with oppressing beings who happen not to be born human, even though they have desires and relationships just like we do. But is it that surprising? Because you would think that those who are discriminated against because of orientation are more likely to support all other orientations. Not always.

While it may be better now, there was a time when identifying as bisexual would get you a lot more flak from those who didn't identify as straight, as from those who did. And while neither group particularly liked "fence sitters", it wasn't heterosexuals who were more committed to kicking you off. But even today biphobia is alive and well. How many bisexual characters are there on TV? How many have there ever been? And how many of those characters are misidentified, like Piper (on Orange Is The New Black) who's called ex-lesbian instead of bi? Notice also how most people think almost exclusively in terms of gay or straight, male or female, black or white. We're addicted to binary thinking, and don't seem to like anything in between. Gosh, how many times haven't you heard the phrase, you're either vegan, or you're not? ;)

As you can see, privilege and oppression are not simple at all. Certainly not as simple to understand and combat as just using words like sexism, racism and speciesism. And while everyone is likely marginalized in some way, please do realize your privilege if you can put check marks in front of white, straight, middle-class, cis (those who identify as the gender they were assigned at birth) or male. Just sayin'.

Comments

Krissa said...

Before I even read this entire post or the linked article, I'm going to throw this out there now. It is my first reaction. And I'll comment again after reading...maybe there will be a change in my perception, but I want to get this out there with no influence...

To me privilege means that an individual or group (of any kind) receives special benefits unavailable to others, has opportunities unavailable to others, receives love/respect/pretty much anything positive at a rate above others...for no reason that they earned themselves. For absolutely no reason other than being born into a situation that says "you're privileged...you have more worth, more rights and more value than others". That is of course a lie, but somehow it is upheld over and over. The most obscene privilege and the one I care about is human privilege over every other living thing. I do care about oppressed human beings, but nowhere near on the level I do about other species because by some genetic chance we were born human and got way more than our share because of it. And all of us, even the well intentioned benefit from it and perpetuate it.

But yes, you are so right that it ties in all together and the key to getting our fellow humans to even begin to see it in its proper context (privilege and how it affects non-humans) they first have to understand it as it applies to themselves. Most of us, anyway.

Ok, I will read the article and the rest of this post, but I wanted to put this out there without any other thoughts in my head..(not much in there at the moment as it is because of things you know about and the darn heat here)

Back asap and glad you are able to post again already!

Krissa said...

Ok, part 2. Snort! ... The post you linked to was well-thought out and well-presented and your post is excellent, too! There's not much I can add to it, privilege is either a concept that one "gets" or you doesn't and it's also one that clearly is either cared about or not.

There is no easy solution until human beings' perception is so entirely changed that we'd have to start calling ourselves something else at that point. Even if there were another Russian or French Revolution, so to speak, there's still privilege even when it comes to gender, sexual orientation and all the things you mentioned. Sigh. I actually have apologized to, well for example, my cow friend that you so thoughtfully feature on your site, so many of my fellow beings that they don't have even the basic rights that I do simply because they were unfortunate enough to not be born human. I'm glad and grateful to know that there are other human beings out there who feel the same love and respect for our fellow creatures as equals the same as I do. There aren't enough of us, but thank goodness for the ones there are.

The positive side of privilege is that I have had the privilege of being loved and accepted by so many different individuals of other species in my life and the privilege of knowing fine vegan folk like yourself! :) (big toothy smile!).

have gone vegan said in reply to Krissa...

Hey Krissa, thank you for your comments, and sorry for the late reply. Yes, getting to know other vegans, and other fellow mortals (thanks Anne, for introducing me to this term) is a plus indeed! :)

Privilege is a tough one, isn't it. Hard to see (especially how it applies to oneself), hard to understand at times, hard to combat, and hard to let go of. I'm beginning to think that asking other people to go vegan (just read an interesting point by someone who doesn't like that term because it still places the emphasis on humans, so they prefer the term animal liberationist instead) is even more difficult than we realize, because essentially we're asking them to give up power over others. Power over all other sentient beings, regardless of species, gender, race, class, etc.

I mean, asking folk to stop being cruel is one thing, but giving up power? I dunno. Maybe that's why vegans and animal rights activists are still such a minority. Will we ever go beyond a paltry 2% of the population? And can you tell I'm in a pessimistic (partially heat-induced) mood at the moment? Snort.

I really really don't have the answers. Just trying to figure out the right questions...

veganelder said...

I thought had put in a comment...I guess the internet ate it. I wonder if there's some electronic warehouse somewhere that retains all that is lost like that?

Privilege...slippery stuff...I think the slipperiness is a big part of the power of it. Reading your comment, HGV, re giving up power is intriguing cuz I'm thinking that's where the action is...with the power stuff. Do you have a link for the writing about that? Racism is all about power...outside of the personal a**holiness. If someone wants to be an a**hole...go for it...the trouble starts when you combine that with power. Privilege is essentially a perk attained because of the exercise of power...isn't it?

have gone vegan said in reply to veganelder...

Oh no! Sorry about that. I get email notifications of comments, and have double-checked just in case, but yeah, the comment-eating machine must have gotten to it right away. So annoying!

Don't have anything to link to at the moment re: giving up power (it was more something I've been thinking about in conjunction with my own control issues), but when I get the chance I'll see if I can find something.

Your last statement though gave me pause when I first read it, and I've been mulling ever since whether giving up power is even possible. Maybe in part because so often privilege is something we're born with (e.g. white skin, able-bodiedness), and we don't even have to do anything active like the word attained suggests -- I realize you likely didn't mean it that way, but that's how my brain interpreted it. I mean, what I'm saying is that we don't even have to exercise power in again, an active sense, to enjoy privilege. It's just there. So to give up power that we haven't earned, haven't had to do anything to attain, is probably even more difficult and unlikely.

Maybe wanting to have power is innate? Newborn babies struggle for power to get their nourishment/nurturing/developmental needs met from the get-go, and that only continues as they get older. I truly don't know. But it does seem that voluntarily giving up power over others (all others) is more likely to happen if one is fairly grounded, mature, and emotionally healthy. Perhaps even self-actualized to use a Maslovian term.

You've done it again veganelder. I thought I knew what I was talking about, and now I have to rethink. But I love that! So thank you. :)

veganelder said...

Sorry I wasn't more specific re the "power" thingee. There are different types of power and our culture acts as if there is only one type..."power over" because that's what keeps the wheels of oppression turning.

(the attained was referencing the fact that at some point someone exercised power over to set up systems of privilege)

You might enjoy looking at this essay re "power over" versus "power with". My bad for not being more specific.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/robert-koehler/power-with-power-over_b_312935.html

have gone vegan said in reply to veganelder...

Thanks for the link. I DID enjoy it. :)