Friday, March 29, 2013

Easter always makes me angry

 Honey bunny


Other holidays do too, but the more dominant emotion that both Thanksgiving and Christmas evoke for me, for example, is sadness. Sadness at the senseless slaughter of all those sentient beings who would rather stay alive. Who so deserve to stay alive.

Easter, on the other hand, being such an important Christian holiday, stirs up more anger in me not only because animal beings and products are the theme of this equally secular holiday, but because of the Christian justification of animal use. This justification hits even more close to home as all of my siblings and parents are active church members, I currently work in a Christian retirement home, and live in a small town with a seemingly disproportionately large and vocal Christian population.

This isn't to say that I'm anti-Christian per se. Religious upbringing (indoctrination some would say) can be hard to shake, and I believe that being vegan is the Christian thing to do. (In my opinion, you can be vegan without being Christian, but you can't be a true Christian without also being vegan. Otherwise, it would render the term "Christian" empty and meaningless.) It isn't to say that Christianity doesn't have lots of doctrine that supports veganism. Christ himself, I believe, (whether you view him as a once living or mythical figure) was vegan at heart, and would be vegan if he were alive today. And it isn't to say that I don't know of some very fine vegan Christians. 

But the fact of the matter is that most Christians aren't vegan, the Bible does not explicitly endorse veganism enough, and Christian teachings are actively misused to justify animal exploitation. The word dominion, for example, has been bastardized to mean domination instead of stewardship. And if ANY group of people could be thought of as having a mandate to care for all of God's creation (if you happen to believe in any of the various forms of creationism), wouldn't it be Christians? Secular vegans rightly believe that all sentient beings are worthy of respect, that caring for them is the ethical thing to do, the morally right stance if you will. But Christians, one would think, would have an even deeper reason to not use and abuse any living creature if they truly believed that God loves all. Sadly, most Christians do not adhere to this. And in a sense, I believe this makes animal cruelty all the crueler and morally wrong when inflicted by a person who espouses to being Christian.

On a more personal level, it irritates me that my Christian family has no real interest in why I'm vegan. They're all smart, so unfortunately I can't lay the blame on them not being bright enough to grasp vegan principles. And while it's possible (okay, likely) that I'm hugely projecting here, I sometimes get the sense that while they're a bit sad I'm not "saved", they're actually quite pleased with themselves for tolerating my "vegan lifestyle" and for not saying too much about it. Actually, for the most part, not anything. In this way, they can view themselves as liberal without having to examine their own morals and their own role in perpetuating animal violence. Can you tell this bugs me? Because a part of me feels that if they truly thought I was an intelligent and moral person, they would actually listen to what I have to say. Ah, family dynamics. No wonder so many vegan organizations suggest concentrating on strangers rather than family!

Another aspect of Christianity and veganism is that on a certain level I think Christians are even harder to reach than folk who aren't religious. Because while you would think the Golden Rule would hold even more weight with those religiously inclined, Christians in particular seem to feel that their god has given them permission to do whatever the fuck they want with animals use and abuse other animals as they see fit. It's almost as if you have to do an extra layer of work: No, the cruelty and death we inflict on other sentient beings is wrong, no, we don't have the right to do that, AND no, we don't have God's permission to do so.

Where I stand on animal sentience and rights is pretty clear to me. Not so clear is Christianity. Having been immersed since birth (similar to how society immerses us in trying to accept animal use/abuse as normal), I still want to accept the good of this religion while rejecting the bad. I remember as a small kid arguing with my mom that if God was perfect and just then of course Jews and Muslims would be going to heaven as well, in large part because I think kids naturally have a strong and innate sense of justice. By the time I was twelve I vacillated between thinking I'd be a church minister when I got older, or an atheist. Talk about all or nothing, snort. Instead, I've been on the believer-agnostic-atheist circular loop numerous times, and that will likely not change. Which is fine, because ultimately what you DO is more important than what you say or believe. 

I still believe that the Christ figure (whether real or mythical), was a fine dude and a social revolutionary of his time. An early feminist (he believed women could be teachers, and working women, even prostitutes, were not untouchable), animal liberator (that whole Temple thing), and champion of the poor and downtrodden. I often quip that I get along with Jesus just fine, but that it's his dad I have issues with. And would give a real piece of my mind to, if, um, given that chance.

Anyway, thanks for listening to my Easter rant. Please hug a bunny if you can this weekend, or donate to a rescue organization that provides homes to these fellow beings.

A peaceful and blessed Easter to you all! :)

Comments

veganelder said...

What a great post! Thank you for writing this. I'm a bit taken aback that even Canadians seem to have, at least someplaces, that christian cloak of whatever it is that makes them often so proudly obtuse. I keep encountering my fantasy that Canadians are so much more...I don't know...grown-up or something than Americans...and when I see something that counters that it boogles my mind a little.

Supposedly Ghandi said something to the effect that he he liked Christ ok but that he didn't care much for christians. You two (and me) might have enjoyed conversing. :-)

Enjoy your holiday, ignore the yahoos, and remember that old saying about prophets not being without honor...except in their own country. I think that means something like that we tend to be not seen/heard clearly by those closest to us.

I will hug a bunch of bunnies on your behalf this weekend. :-) You give yourself a hug please.

Tom said...

Great post, HGV. You hit on many of the reasons I am Christian (trying every day to live like Christ) but find it difficult to become a belong of to a fellowship of people that doesn't given animal use and abuse a second thought.

In my experience, the distinction between vegans and non-vegans (Christian or otherwise) is:

[1] Have you really thought about life, fear, and death from an animal's perspective?
[2] If you have, are you sufficiently compassionate to violate social and family customs and remember their perspective, no matter its cost to opinions of you?

Quite simply, those of us who have actually thought this through will NOT harm or kill animals, and we will NOT ask others to do it for us. (It's interesting that many vegans I know make no effort to avoid thinking--as writers and readers, we think things through, including their consequences on the web of life around us.)

Most people who have not thought this through, I believe, would be vegan if they really did think about it, or if they did have to harm or kill the animals themselves. (Not talking about hunters, of course.) It's just too comfortable to close their eyes tight and pretend hatchery shredders and factory farms and bolt guns and suffering and disease have nothing to do with what they're eating.

Thanks so much! I needed this piece that expresses perfectly what so many of us "believer-agnostic-atheist" animal-rights activists feel at Easter and other Christian holidays, filled as they are with undeniable hypocrisies. I especially love and relate to your quip: "I get along with Jesus just fine; it's his dad I have issues with." Indeed, how could a LOVING Father allow factory farms or other atrocities done to His precious creation?! Why were humans given so much power and free will, when we obviously can't handle them? I seriously don't get that. It is Easter! And man, in his infinite wisdom, says, "Let us express our love of the Father and praise His Son, the Lamb of God, by killing a lamb and eating her leg?" I mean, seriously? How are we all not completely schizophrenic? :/ A peaceful, blessed, and nonviolent Easter to you.

Bea Elliott said...

I enjoyed reading this great post HGV! It echoes many of my thoughts/experiences as well. I too was in the circular treadmill of "faith/question/doubt/belief". I settled on the latter because evidence based "belief" just feels right for me. Everyone has their own journey and it's not mine to direct.

I agree though, the most totally annoying thing about 99% of religious doctrine is the "license to use" nonhumans - Talk about "gOd" made in man's image! I always shudder to think of all the things "he" lets us do to nonhumans (and each other).

I'm celebrating today in the joy of nature's renewal and the infinite variation and wonder of earthly matter... I hope you have a fine day as well. <3

Oh... The point about family not asking about veganism? Hunch from experience: (they already know!) ;)

Cdlitestudio said...

Great post! There was a document that Christ lived a pretty much vegan diet. According to the scriptures Christ ate a mostly plant base and raw plant diet. Most of my family are celebrating today as Easter without the lamb. Wishing you all a very Blessed Easter day <3

First, a big Thank You to all for your lovely and thoughtful responses, and a huge apology for not replying sooner. Your comments were read and enjoyed (certainly not ignored), but life has this habit of getting in the way...

@veganelder: Thanks. I have to say though that my town is probably not representative (small, with a large wave of Dutch Christian immigrants coming over post WWII with conservative values held intact), so likely (hopefully?) not as reflective of typical Canadians as other Canadians!

@Tom: You're one of the very fine vegan Christians I was referring to. :)

And yes, thinking things through is so vital! Along the line of that famous adage "the unexamined life is not worth living", I think we should add "and the unexamined faith is not worth having." ;)

@Apps55...aka Janet, snort: You're welcome! I'm pleased it helped. I like to think that if there is an all-knowing and all loving God, that s/he is just as sad and upset and bewildered as we are. Human beings must be such a disappointment! Because if God is perfect and just, then animal use/abuse would be displeasing to him + her just as much.

@Bea: See comment to Janet above. Plus, yeah, are we made in God's image, or have we made Him (if God does exist, then s/he would be both him AND her IMO) in ours? Will we ever find out for sure? ;)

@Cdlitestudio: Thanks for dropping by! Yes, I've heard that assertion about Christ as well, and it makes sense to me. Hope you (and all of you above too!) had a wonderful Easter.

Again, my apologies for not getting back to this post sooner.

Joan Kyler said...

This is a wonderful post. I agree with it all. I once sent a letter to the minister at my ex-church and a packet of religion-based information and a CD with suggestions for a sermon on animal welfare and Christianity. He never even responded. I also called a Quaker group that was having a BBQ and asked if violence against animals didn't conflict with their pacifist beliefs. I do try to control myself - sometimes! But I did really want to know.

I even pointed out Genesis 1:29, which seems to get skipped when teaching the Bible. That's basis enough for me to agree that Christians should be vegans. And then there's 'Thou shall not kill', which, unless I'm reading incorrect translations, doesn't specify. It doesn't say 'Thou shall not kill only humans, unless they are part of a group of humans that your country decides they must eradicate or it's a human your society says must die'. It says 'Thou shall not kill'. Period. We are not granted the right to take a life, any life, human or otherwise.

Faith and following a religion, i.e. Christianity, is not easy. We are supposed to do what is right and we should want to do what is right. That means sacrifice. That means compassion. And maybe God is punishing us for killing and eating animals. We kill them and eat them and by eating them, we kill ourselves, both spiritually and physically. God gives people who eat animals more heart disease, cancer, and other illnesses. Isn't that a sign?

have gone vegan said in reply to Joan Kyler...

Hey Joan, thanks for chiming in! And sorry for taking a while to chime back. ;)

I hear ya about trying to spread the word to Christian churches. Back in 2011 I mailed out 16 Would Jesus Eat Meat Today? pamphlets to area churches and only got back one reply. They're a tough bunch to crack, methinks.

http://www.havegonevegan.com/2011/10/the-fowlfoulness-of-thanksgiving.html

And yes, there are even specific passages forbidding the killing of animals (e.g. Isaiah 66:3 He that killeth an ox is as if he slew a man; he that sacrificeth a lamb, as if he cut off a dog's neck; he that offereth an oblation, as if he offered swine's blood; he that burneth incense, as if he blessed an idol. Yea, they have chosen their own ways, and their soul delighteth in their abominations.) but those tend to be conveniently ignored as well. So sad. Although, not sure about the incense, snort.

I don't know though about the idea of God punishing us, as I like to think that s/he is just as offended by how animals are used and abused as we are. And it reminds me of how some Christians feel that AIDS is God's punishment as well, which I think is absurd. No, we likely just punish ourselves. And innocent beings of course. :(

Saturday, January 19, 2013

who will love a little sparrow?

Like most folk I'm familiar enough with the more classic hits of Simon and Garfunkel, but when I heard the simple yet hauntingly beautiful Sparrow, I knew I had to share:

 

Sparrow*

Who will love a little Sparrow?

Who's traveled far and cries for rest?
"Not I," said the Oak Tree,
"I won't share my branches with
no sparrow's nest,
And my blanket of leaves won't warm
her cold breast."

Who will love a little Sparrow
And who will speak a kindly word?
"Not I," said the Swan,
"The entire idea is utterly absurd,
I'd be laughed at and scorned if the
other Swans heard."

Who will take pity in his heart,
And who will feed a starving sparrow?
"Not I," said the Golden Wheat,
"I would if I could but I cannot I know,
I need all my grain to prosper and grow."

Who will love a little Sparrow?
Will no one write her eulogy?
"I will," said the Earth,
"For all I've created returns unto me,
From dust were ye made and dust ye shall be."

♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪♪ ♪

Greed, vanity, and hypocrisy abound. So, who will love the little sparrows? 

* from their debut album, Wednesday Morning, 3AM, released October 19, 1964

Comments

veganelder said...

Believe it or not I have this album...it was one of the first I ever purchased. The Earth is the mother of us all and we are foolishly harming our mother. And I will love the sparrows...but I can't make everyone do so. It's an excellent song.

have gone vegan said in reply to veganelder...

It sure is. And cool that it was one of your first albums! Hopefully over time more of us will come to love the sparrows...

Rebecca Stucki said...

Believe it or not, I had this album, too! I played it frequently - a lot of great songs. This sounds like a more recent recording, though - maybe something they sang during a reunion concert? Their voices don't have the perfect clarity I remember.

have gone vegan said in reply to Rebecca Stucki...

Hey Rebecca, thanks for stopping by. Yes, this was a live recording done in 1967, so not as smooth sounding as on their album but still highly enjoyable methinks! :)

Bea Elliott said...

From my teen years I had "I Am a Rock" memorized forward and back... I was good even then at brick walling myself from others. I heard the sparrow song but didn't know more than that single line. Goes to show how that "rock mentality" also injures the possessor.

Thank you for a long overdue chance at further enlightenment via the voice and lyrics of this multi-talented duo. The song and video are absolutely beautiful! <3

have gone vegan said in reply to Bea Elliott...

Hi Bea, glad you like the song and video as much as I do. When I first heard the song (only a few weeks back), I was transfixed and couldn't believe I'd never heard it before! It's utterly beautiful, and I love the message. And whoever put the video together did a great job. So thanks for the fave, and for promoting it. Everyone should hear this! :)

Red Lories said...

Thank you for posting this song!! I saved a baby sparrow 3 months ago and started soft release a month ago. She comes back every day to feed and hang out with me. Sadly, I've to leave in 2 weeks...I've asked someone to leave food out for her but I'm still very worried. Today I saw a feral cat got one of her friends and it breaks my heart that I cannot protect my little friend anymore. And yes, I'm thinking about going vegan - I feel so connected to this little creature that has no worth in this world. For a few times now, the morning after a stormy night, she would snuggle in my palm as if to tell me it was a bad night. But she wants to be free and should be. Who will love a little sparrow? I WILL!!

have gone vegan said in reply to Red Lories...

Aw, I'm so glad you managed to save one of our feathered friends -- good for you! And I hope she manages to stay safe while you're gone. It's always a worry, isn't it?

And awesome news that you're thinking of going vegan! There's lots of resources online to help you with that, but feel free to ask for assistance on this blog as well. :)

Red Lories said in reply to have gone vegan...

This is an excellent site - keep it up! I'll take small steps first, not eating meat is easy but the others will take some time. It turns out that my sparrow is a boy :)

have gone vegan said in reply to Red Lories...

Ah, a boy bird! Hope HE'LL stay safe.

Yes, it's dairy and cheese that for some are the hardest. Cheese in particular is addictive because of the casein! Thankfully there are good vegan cheeses now like Daiya -- one of my faves. :)

Saturday, July 14, 2012

7 daily questions vegans could ask themselves

 What kind of lamb


Also a good question, but not quite what I had in mind. Below are seven sets of questions -- one for each day of the week.

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  1. What one step can I take today to increase public awareness of the plight of farmed animals? What is the best way for me to help spread the word? How can I help someone else connect the dots?

 

  1. How can I be the best ambassador possible for veganism? How can I show that being vegan is the healthiest, most responsible and most compassionate way of being? How can I be more welcoming to new vegans and vegans-to-be?

 

  1. What specific skills and strengths can I bring to the table to forward the cause of animal liberation? Because doing what you're good at, and what you enjoy, will make you more effective.

 

  1. What can I do to show that animal rights are human rights as well? How can I show the intersections between human and animal oppressions? How can I demonstrate the various ways they're linked?

 

  1. How can I help bridge the gap between vegans and non-vegans? (Or between different factions of vegans?) How can I show where there's common ground?

 

  1. How can I protect myself from fatigue and burnout so I'm stronger for the long haul? What would stop me from being vegan? What can I learn from detractors of our cause?

 

  1. How can I be proactive instead of reactive? How can I highlight gains rather than losses? How can I move from focusing on problems to developing solutions?

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Obviously, questions are a lot easier to ask than answer (and more fun in my opinion), so I'll leave the hard work of actually answering them up to you. ;)

Comments

Krissa said...

All very good questions. The only one I can answer right off the top of my head is part of #6. The only thing that would stop me being vegan is if it were to save the life or prevent some kind of torture to a loved one or if I were 'required' to physically or psychologically torture another living creature (excluding child/'animal' molesters, rapists, murderers - those kinds of people) or be vegan. Neither of those choices will present itself so I'm safe. I don't know exactly what prevents others, besides unawareness. But then, what about those who know, but just go on and participate in the cruelty anyway? Which is where all the other questions come in and why they're so crucial. When I think back on my 'animal lover' days...before I was vegan...it just kind of blows my mind because I knew...I hadn't seen photos or anything, but I knew. And yet there I was doing it, too. What stopped me back then? I just don't know. As for what can we learn from detractors of basic decency. I have no idea about that either. That's a very generous outlook and question.

Debbie said...

Question #2 worries me. Am I a good ambassador? What if I’m the only vegan someone has ever talked to? Am I setting a positive example of a very easy way to live? While I am sick far, far less than I was before going vegan I still feel guilty if I catch a cold or something because I don’t want anyone to think it is because I’m vegan. Am I gracious when I go out to eat with others or do I come off as demanding when I ask questions about something on the menu? I just don’t know. I try to be a good ambassador but I’m not perfect.

veganelder said...

Question number 4 addresses an issue that intrigues me. There seems to be a lot of fog surrounding this.

Tom said...

As always, really helpful food for thought. Thank you. We sometimes become so happily ensconced in our vegan bubble that we forget how much work there is out there to be done.

Bea Elliott said...

Great list! I think I'm working my way backwards on it. #10 used to be the most challenging new habit to develop. Reacting (negatively or defensively) is very easy to do. And it certainly doesn't accomplish much.

The way I "cured" myself when I dealt with derogatory remarks about us AR/vegan "wackos" was to not take it personally. It's either a defense mechanism in them or just a lack of knowledge. I sure don't want to prove them right by flying off the handle! Better to stay collected and focused on the issues and not be sensitive to the misconceptions. Like I said... Most of the time, it's not personal - So I try not to make it so.

#9 - #1 solutions are in the works! ;)

Thanks everyone for your input! These questions are, of course, ones that I struggle with all the time. And my apologies for being so late in replying -- where has this month gone?!

@Krissa: For me, the only thing that would stop me from being vegan I think, is if I were to be convinced that veganism was hurting animals more than actually helping them -- that another approach would be of greater benefit. As for detractors? I think it's vital to be aware of how they view us, of the arguments they put forth and the questions they have, because ultimately they're the ones we're trying to reach and convince. Also there's a bit of a "keep your friends close and your enemies closer" strategy involved there, snort.

@Debbie: This question worries me too. Especially when I get riled up reading some online article and end up leaving caustic remarks, which no doubt do more harm than good. Gotta watch that temper of mine! And I hate getting colds now because invariably someone will link it to my being vegan. Grrr!

@veganelder: One of my favourite examples to cite for question #4 is domestic violence because there's such a clear link between the two. Where there's domestic assault, there's very likely animal cruelty as well. Studies show that many women don't leave abusive situations because they fear for the safety of their pets. That their pets have been hurt or have been threatened with violence as a means of control. That children exposed to domestic violence are more likely to be cruel to animals, and so forth. This is a subject worthy of its own post sometime, but also a good way to start the conversation about how helping animals helps humans too.

@Tom: Thanks. Yep, the vegan bubble is alive and well, and perhaps a bit too comfortable. Although veganism is making great strides in becoming more mainstream, reading online comments helps me remember how we're still regarded as a wacky minority by most.

@Bea: Being reactive is something I still have to work on. A lot! And sadly, an issue that probably interferes with every other question on the list. Hmmm, I definitely need to start answering these questions for myself. :)

Bettina said...

Hi there!

I'm so delighted to find these questions from you. I'm not vegan but have decided to act on my values to commit to a vegan lunch for a month. Usually when I hang out with vegans I feel guilty for being 'only' vegetarian, so I'm happy to see that you speak in the language of 'bridging the gap' rather than everyone's got to be 'all vegan, all the time'. It's a journey for me, and I want to get there someday.

have gone vegan said in reply to Bettina...

Hey Bettina! Thanks for dropping by, and welcome to the vegan journey. And it IS a journey, so don't let anyone tell you otherwise, snort. There's lots of resources online that can help (a number of places offer free vegan starter kits, for example), and tons of recipe and how-to-be-vegan books (I've got a bunch listed in the sidebar), so committing to vegan lunches for a month is definitely doable. And kudos to you for starting! Bon appetit!! :)

p.s. if you ever have any questions, just fire away...

Friday, June 1, 2012

50 hodgepodge thoughts on living well

 This was written the other day when I thought about turning 50 in October. I decided to put it all down as inspiration hit because I often regret not writing things down as I think of them. I've admitted to not always being punctual, and it's true I'm sometimes late, but I'm also sometimes early, so why wait with posting until I'm actually fifty? ;)

Um, it's not really related to veganism per se, but I thought you might enjoy anyway.

 

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  1. don't let anyone else tell you who you are unless they've legitimately earned your trust
  2. accept their input, but reserve the right to dismiss if it doesn't ring true
  3. learn to like yourself (you know what you need to improve on, but don't beat yourself up)
  4. don't let anyone else beat you up either, whether physically, emotionally, verbally, sexually, financially, or spiritually
  5. find a purpose, YOUR purpose, and keep looking for it if you have to until you find one that fits. You'll know when it does.
  6. figure out what you're good at, figure out what you're passionate about, and let the two become acquainted
  7. accept your past but know it doesn't define you
  8. become your own best friend and ally
  9. stay self-focused, but don't become self-centered 
  10. you can't change anyone except yourself (but by providing information or insight you may be able to help others help change themselves)
  11. be kind, be compassionate, and know we're all connected
  12. be a mentor (or at least a supporter)
  13. try to leave this world a better place
  14. define success for yourself
  15. be true to yourself, before being true to the world
  16. know that everything WILL pass
  17. be creative (whether literally in creating offspring, or preferably in how you live, how you connect to the world, and in leaving your mark on this world)
  18. know that being vegan is a spiritual task even if you identify as atheist
  19. become comfortable in not knowing all the answers
  20. comfort yourself by becoming better in asking the right questions
  21. decide for yourself what is true
  22. question authority because it has never been more relevant
  23. reading is as essential to life as breathing; do it every day
  24. forgive yourself
  25. forgive others (especially if they know not what they do), but only when ready
  26. know that you have much to contribute
  27. become a good steward
  28. try your best, but know that anything worth doing is worth doing badly
  29. always ask, What is the best use of my time right now?
  30. become a recovering pessimist
  31. better yet, become an idealistic realist
  32. think of happiness as a byproduct rather than an aim
  33. recognize that money is only a tool, a form of energy if you wish
  34. many rules are meant to be broken, but know rules well before you break them
  35. be mindful of what and whom you eat
  36. vote with your fork every day
  37. travel light (figuratively, metaphorically and literally)
  38. be grateful that your companion animal has chosen you
  39. live up to their expectations and exceed them when you can
  40. see how some of the best words are i words -- ideas, ideals, imagine, inform, inspire, illuminate, innovate, intuitive, introspection, insightful, intention, integrity...
  41. be aware of all the ways in which you're extremely lucky
  42. express gratitude daily
  43. remember that all families are complex and multi-layered
  44. honour your children as well as your parents
  45. realize there are three versions to every story: yours, mine, and the truth
  46. it's easier to be reactive than proactive, but easy is not usually best
  47. focus on the things you want more of, rather than less of
  48. fear not living well -- however you define well -- rather than death itself
  49. always be kind (notice how 'kin' is part of kind, and because all beings ARE kin, we need to be kind to all)
  50. know that love IS the answer

 

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Comments

Jill said...

"figure out what you're good at, figure out what you're passionate about, and let the two become acquainted" - what a great line! Happy early birthday!

Krissa said...

Thanks for sharing this! Lots of good insight and lots to think about.