Sunday, March 16, 2014

what I need to remember before judging too quickly

 Because I'd like everyone to go vegan RIGHT NOW, and can't understand the apathy and complacency of those who still eat animals. Especially if they've been exposed to at least some of the facts of animal agriculture. And because being vegan is so my normal, and so the world I've inhabited for more than five years, I want others to hurry up and get there already. But it may be wise for me to remember the following:

  • I didn't become vegan until I was 46
  • while I knew in grade school that the idea of animals performing stupid tricks for humans in circuses or aquarium amusement parks made me uncomfortable and sad, I couldn't really put into words why
  • in my early 20s I scoffed at a friend's sister becoming vegetarian because eliminating certain food products didn't make any sense to me if you weren't going to eliminate ALL animal-derived substances whether they be food, clothing, toothpaste or anything else, and of course, that was impossible
  • I had no idea at the time that the concept I was referring to was called veganism, and was much more possible than I imagined
  • when in my late 30s I actually ran across the term vegan, I too, asked what those weird vegans ate if they didn't eat meat, eggs, or dairy
  • when in my early 40s I was horrified one night by seeing a cat skinned and boiled alive on a TV documentary program and began to wonder how people decide what animals to eat and what ones to love, I found it too painful to contemplate for long, and put it out of my head for another couple of years
  • that it was only when I viewed an online video on factory farming (I don't even remember which one), that things finally went click, click, click...

So if it took me that long before I could even see, let alone connect, the numerous dots, then perhaps I need to practice the skill of patience and not demand that others become wise in far less time than I did?

Comments

Krissa said...

Good points. I've had to remind myself, too, how long it took me to actually get it even though I considered myself an "animal" lover my whole life.

Sometimes when I look back at how long it took me to get it when I should have, I can't understand why that was. You might remember, I was cruelty-free and didn't eat any animal products other than eggs and didn't wear animal products...I did believe the "kein Ei mit drei" campaign here (eggs are numbered 0-3 and 3 are supposedly the cruel ones, when in fact, they ALL are. But why I believed it, I'll never know. My cow friend is what got me to finally give up eggs and I know you remember that. But it did take so long. So yes, I guess we do have to have patience for others because there was a time where most of us vegans really didn't have a valid excuse at all for continuing the way we did either.

Sorry if this was rambling, my computer/internet is having problems and I've had to re-connect in the middle of this a few times. Grrr.

have gone vegan said in reply to Krissa...

Hey Krissa, sorry to hear of your computer woes, but no, you weren't rambling at all. And yeah, looking back it can be hard to see why we didn't see what we see so clearly now! It's more than hindsight, that's for sure.

But as veganelder eloquently states below, we mistakenly tend to think of change as an event rather than a process, and we don't tend to like change all that much.

veganelder said...

It is very difficult to apprehend and to remain persistently aware that "change" is often (always?) a process and not an event. Internal perceptions, assumptions, understandings, and meanings must all be configured in a "just so" way in order for "change" to occur. Often an "aha" moment is preceded by minutes, hours, days, months and sometimes years of large and small restructurings, factual intakes and experiential happenings. Motivation too plays a very very consequential role in this process.

Change can be disturbing and painful as well as exciting and exhilarating. Change can be frightening, even terrifying. Courage is no small element in many "change" processes.

Most, if not all, adults who "change" to a vegan outlook struggle with a few, some or all of the aforementioned phenomena. Makes ya wonder if maybe the question isn't why someone doesn't change but rather why someone does?

I'll shut up.

Thank you for your changing. :-)

have gone vegan said in reply to veganelder...

Good summation of change! I always quip that it took me 46 years to go vegan overnight, but as you say, it's really an accumulation of moments and insights and shifts. Change may look instantaneous, but it's a process, even when we don't recognize it.

Yep, amazing any of us manage to change at all given our almost innate reluctance.

And no, don't ever shut up on my account. ;)

Bea Elliott said...

Thank you for sharing with us the account of the processes you went through... I was a vegetarian (way back) when I was a teen. And then I got side-tracked with career, relationships and all the conveniences/compromises that I thought would make my life complete. For decades without guilt, I shrugged my shoulders with the excuse that "they" were dead already. And truthfully in my head they all just "died" from old age. I'm embarrassed to say this now, but I think it proves how relatively intelligent people avoid judging even themselves.

Lately I too am having a shift that requires adding patience to my tool-kit-for-change. I'm trying hard not to get attached to the outcome and am satisfied for the opportunity to plant seeds. They say it takes six generations for an idea to take hold. That makes us all pioneers for a better world! There are many who have live and died without a bit of the passion or vision we have. No, change won't happen quickly... But it *IS* happening even so! ;)

have gone vegan said in reply to Bea Elliott...

You're so welcome! :)

Yeah, I'm with you on the don't-get-too-attached-to-the-outcome mode of thinking. While that doesn't mean I don't try to spread the vegan word, ultimately I'm vegan because that's the set of values I adhere to, whether the rest of the world goes vegan with me or not. And as you said, there ARE changes happening, and certainly more of them and more quickly than even five years ago, so obviously some of us are doing something right. ;)

Monday, December 23, 2013

what Christmas is all about

 What christmas is all about

That's some (modified) speech, snort. Have to admit that A Charlie Brown Christmas is one of my favourite shows of the season, and the one I make sure not to miss. As relevant now as it was in '65 (though hard to imagine that commercialization was as rampant back then), it offers a great message no matter what your beliefs.

Veganism, for most vegans I hope, is about fighting commodification of sentient beings. We disagree with the notion that other species (including our own) are objects for human animals to use, own or destroy. And at a time of year when consumption as celebration is all around us, it seems even more fitting to remember that consuming other animals in whatever form is wrong no matter what month we happen to be in.

It's always a good time though to put into practice what Linus (reciting the Gospel of Luke Ch2 v14) said at the end: "...and on earth peace and goodwill towards men [sic] [recte ALL]."

May peace and goodwill to all rule all of our hearts and actions.

Merry Christmas everyone! :)

Friday, July 19, 2013

being vegan means only one thing

 Reportr

What? I can already hear you say.

Didn't I write being vegan means many things just three posts ago? Yep. But we're vegans right? Which means we're smart cookies comfortable with paradox (I have 2 more to add to the series) and contradiction. (In other words, we're Walt Whitman-esque. See the great quote Tom provided in the first comment here.)

Yes, even though we're all the things mentioned in the post above, what being vegan really boils down to is giving voice to the voiceless. In a way, you're a reporter. So, time to brush up on the Five Ws? ;)

Comments

veganelder said...

Speaking the human language for those too worthy to be reduced to such a low class communication mode...because we've turned it into the language of killers and harmers and oppressors.

I agree. :-)

have gone vegan said in reply to veganelder...

Of course after posting this I got to pondering whether other sentient beings really couldn't be heard, or whether we're just refusing to listen. Semantics maybe, but it seems to me that they're communicating pretty clearly what they don't want, but because it doesn't serve our interests, most of us don't want to hear it.

And we really do pride ourselves on our communication mode, don't we? Cats, for example, usually only meow to humans. They don't need to do it with other kitties as they can communicate just fine without it. So why is it that we view our ability to use language as something that makes us superior, whereas it could be just the opposite? ;)

Bea Elliott said...

I agree we vegans are journalists. We're all reporting the story of the silenced victims. We're all whistle blowers on the system. Sadly we're also as villanized as the others who show naked emperors. People fear truth... How do we change this while working our magic with the 5 W's? :/

have gone vegan said in reply to Bea Elliott...

I wish I knew, Bea, I really do. :(

have gone vegan said in reply to have gone vegan...

Well that was quite the lame answer!

All we can do is continue to see the truth, communicate that truth as best we can, advocate in whatever way we most excel, be an example of truth in action, and hope that everyone eventually catches on to the truth of animal use/abuse.

I am more hopeful though, because even in the last five years of being vegan it's starting to feel different. Everyday folk seem to know exactly what I mean when I use the term "vegan", and everyone seems to have a vegan friend or relative or know of someone in their vicinity who's woken up to the truth of animal ag. We really are at the beginning of a more widespread awareness, and veganism is becoming mainstream like never before. Obviously it's not moving as quickly as we'd like, but we're getting there. Of that I'm sure.

Monday, May 20, 2013

being vegan means many things

 Vegan warrior

It means, if nothing else, that you are a witness.

On a continual basis, you are bearing witness to the cruelty and atrocity waged on innocent sentient beings, and while that may sound passive, it really isn't. Seeing, recognizing and acknowledging what others refuse to see, is the first step in changing reality.

Being vegan also means that you're a humanist and a feminist. A human rights advocate, animal rights advocate, a poverty advocate, and a peace advocate. In short, and to sum it all up, YOU are a truth advocate.

You're a student and a teacher, learning and imparting knowledge as you go. You may be a mentor and/or mentee, a mover and a shaker, and some of you are even leaders.

You're an artist and a rebel, a dreamer and a visionary (What is now proved was once, only imagin’d. --William Blake), and a poet.

You're an optimist, an idealist, and a realist all rolled into one.

You're a gardener. Literally, if you happen to grow your own veggies or flower beds, or figuratively as you plant seeds of compassion and change. You're an environmentalist, championing the cause of our host planet and ALL her guests. You're even a nutritionist of sorts, as you pay more attention to what your body needs than most.

You're a warrior for all sentient beings, plus a conscientious objector to the unholy and horrific war on animals.

You're an intersectionist, deconstructionist, and systems analyst as you figure out how justice issues intersect, and how different political, economic and cultural forces collide and collude in keeping oppression alive.

You may be tired, or suffer from compassion fatigue, or even PTSD as unrelenting cruelty will affect anyone trying to make this world a better place. What you are NOT though, is crazy (although living in an insane world can certainly be crazy making), and you are definitely not a domestic terrorist no matter what the real terrorists may claim.

What you ARE is strong, and motivated, and perhaps even a bit of a hero.

So don't ever think of yourself as just a vegan.

Because you're not.

++++++++++++

Comments

Tom said...

"Don't ever think of yourself as just a vegan."

Thanks for the reminder! And what a great graphic. Looking forward to sharing it! Did you create it—or, do you know who did?

have gone vegan said in reply to Tom...

And thank you! :)

I'm sorry, no, not sure who created the graphic. Normally if I know, I either state a name or give a link, so I probably just scooped it up from Google Images at some point. If anyone DOES know, please indicate it in the comments and I'll properly attribute it in the post.

veganelder said...

Excellent points and reminders. Hooray for all y'all great folks out there! The more of you there are...the better off everyone is.

have gone vegan said in reply to veganelder...

Thanks. If I didn't think there were too many people on the planet already, even I might be preaching "go forth and multiply" -- but only for vegans of course. ;)

Beaelliott said...

Wonderful! You've managed to compile a list of all the best attributes of a whole, compassionate and engaged person! Yep - That would be a Vegan or an aspiring one for sure! Not "just" a Vegan at all! Thank you for this tribute to us! ;)

have gone vegan said in reply to Beaelliott...

You're more than welcome! And thanks. I truly hope this post has inspired both vegans and vegans-to-be. :)

Debbie said...

I so needed to read this right about now. I admit that I am one of those who gave in to compassion fatigue. I tried to avoid being a witness but I can’t un-know what I know. This post is the perfect reminder that being vegan isn’t just about not consuming animals it is about fully participating in trying to make this world better for everyone. I don’t want to live any other way. Thank you for reminding me of that!

have gone vegan said in reply to Debbie...

No problem! Sorry for replying so late. :(

I sure hear you about compassion fatigue -- something I've been thinking about of late and have a few thoughts on that I'll be sharing at some point. Hope the conference you went to is still inspiring you!

Friday, March 29, 2013

Easter always makes me angry

 Honey bunny


Other holidays do too, but the more dominant emotion that both Thanksgiving and Christmas evoke for me, for example, is sadness. Sadness at the senseless slaughter of all those sentient beings who would rather stay alive. Who so deserve to stay alive.

Easter, on the other hand, being such an important Christian holiday, stirs up more anger in me not only because animal beings and products are the theme of this equally secular holiday, but because of the Christian justification of animal use. This justification hits even more close to home as all of my siblings and parents are active church members, I currently work in a Christian retirement home, and live in a small town with a seemingly disproportionately large and vocal Christian population.

This isn't to say that I'm anti-Christian per se. Religious upbringing (indoctrination some would say) can be hard to shake, and I believe that being vegan is the Christian thing to do. (In my opinion, you can be vegan without being Christian, but you can't be a true Christian without also being vegan. Otherwise, it would render the term "Christian" empty and meaningless.) It isn't to say that Christianity doesn't have lots of doctrine that supports veganism. Christ himself, I believe, (whether you view him as a once living or mythical figure) was vegan at heart, and would be vegan if he were alive today. And it isn't to say that I don't know of some very fine vegan Christians. 

But the fact of the matter is that most Christians aren't vegan, the Bible does not explicitly endorse veganism enough, and Christian teachings are actively misused to justify animal exploitation. The word dominion, for example, has been bastardized to mean domination instead of stewardship. And if ANY group of people could be thought of as having a mandate to care for all of God's creation (if you happen to believe in any of the various forms of creationism), wouldn't it be Christians? Secular vegans rightly believe that all sentient beings are worthy of respect, that caring for them is the ethical thing to do, the morally right stance if you will. But Christians, one would think, would have an even deeper reason to not use and abuse any living creature if they truly believed that God loves all. Sadly, most Christians do not adhere to this. And in a sense, I believe this makes animal cruelty all the crueler and morally wrong when inflicted by a person who espouses to being Christian.

On a more personal level, it irritates me that my Christian family has no real interest in why I'm vegan. They're all smart, so unfortunately I can't lay the blame on them not being bright enough to grasp vegan principles. And while it's possible (okay, likely) that I'm hugely projecting here, I sometimes get the sense that while they're a bit sad I'm not "saved", they're actually quite pleased with themselves for tolerating my "vegan lifestyle" and for not saying too much about it. Actually, for the most part, not anything. In this way, they can view themselves as liberal without having to examine their own morals and their own role in perpetuating animal violence. Can you tell this bugs me? Because a part of me feels that if they truly thought I was an intelligent and moral person, they would actually listen to what I have to say. Ah, family dynamics. No wonder so many vegan organizations suggest concentrating on strangers rather than family!

Another aspect of Christianity and veganism is that on a certain level I think Christians are even harder to reach than folk who aren't religious. Because while you would think the Golden Rule would hold even more weight with those religiously inclined, Christians in particular seem to feel that their god has given them permission to do whatever the fuck they want with animals use and abuse other animals as they see fit. It's almost as if you have to do an extra layer of work: No, the cruelty and death we inflict on other sentient beings is wrong, no, we don't have the right to do that, AND no, we don't have God's permission to do so.

Where I stand on animal sentience and rights is pretty clear to me. Not so clear is Christianity. Having been immersed since birth (similar to how society immerses us in trying to accept animal use/abuse as normal), I still want to accept the good of this religion while rejecting the bad. I remember as a small kid arguing with my mom that if God was perfect and just then of course Jews and Muslims would be going to heaven as well, in large part because I think kids naturally have a strong and innate sense of justice. By the time I was twelve I vacillated between thinking I'd be a church minister when I got older, or an atheist. Talk about all or nothing, snort. Instead, I've been on the believer-agnostic-atheist circular loop numerous times, and that will likely not change. Which is fine, because ultimately what you DO is more important than what you say or believe. 

I still believe that the Christ figure (whether real or mythical), was a fine dude and a social revolutionary of his time. An early feminist (he believed women could be teachers, and working women, even prostitutes, were not untouchable), animal liberator (that whole Temple thing), and champion of the poor and downtrodden. I often quip that I get along with Jesus just fine, but that it's his dad I have issues with. And would give a real piece of my mind to, if, um, given that chance.

Anyway, thanks for listening to my Easter rant. Please hug a bunny if you can this weekend, or donate to a rescue organization that provides homes to these fellow beings.

A peaceful and blessed Easter to you all! :)

Comments

veganelder said...

What a great post! Thank you for writing this. I'm a bit taken aback that even Canadians seem to have, at least someplaces, that christian cloak of whatever it is that makes them often so proudly obtuse. I keep encountering my fantasy that Canadians are so much more...I don't know...grown-up or something than Americans...and when I see something that counters that it boogles my mind a little.

Supposedly Ghandi said something to the effect that he he liked Christ ok but that he didn't care much for christians. You two (and me) might have enjoyed conversing. :-)

Enjoy your holiday, ignore the yahoos, and remember that old saying about prophets not being without honor...except in their own country. I think that means something like that we tend to be not seen/heard clearly by those closest to us.

I will hug a bunch of bunnies on your behalf this weekend. :-) You give yourself a hug please.

Tom said...

Great post, HGV. You hit on many of the reasons I am Christian (trying every day to live like Christ) but find it difficult to become a belong of to a fellowship of people that doesn't given animal use and abuse a second thought.

In my experience, the distinction between vegans and non-vegans (Christian or otherwise) is:

[1] Have you really thought about life, fear, and death from an animal's perspective?
[2] If you have, are you sufficiently compassionate to violate social and family customs and remember their perspective, no matter its cost to opinions of you?

Quite simply, those of us who have actually thought this through will NOT harm or kill animals, and we will NOT ask others to do it for us. (It's interesting that many vegans I know make no effort to avoid thinking--as writers and readers, we think things through, including their consequences on the web of life around us.)

Most people who have not thought this through, I believe, would be vegan if they really did think about it, or if they did have to harm or kill the animals themselves. (Not talking about hunters, of course.) It's just too comfortable to close their eyes tight and pretend hatchery shredders and factory farms and bolt guns and suffering and disease have nothing to do with what they're eating.

Thanks so much! I needed this piece that expresses perfectly what so many of us "believer-agnostic-atheist" animal-rights activists feel at Easter and other Christian holidays, filled as they are with undeniable hypocrisies. I especially love and relate to your quip: "I get along with Jesus just fine; it's his dad I have issues with." Indeed, how could a LOVING Father allow factory farms or other atrocities done to His precious creation?! Why were humans given so much power and free will, when we obviously can't handle them? I seriously don't get that. It is Easter! And man, in his infinite wisdom, says, "Let us express our love of the Father and praise His Son, the Lamb of God, by killing a lamb and eating her leg?" I mean, seriously? How are we all not completely schizophrenic? :/ A peaceful, blessed, and nonviolent Easter to you.

Bea Elliott said...

I enjoyed reading this great post HGV! It echoes many of my thoughts/experiences as well. I too was in the circular treadmill of "faith/question/doubt/belief". I settled on the latter because evidence based "belief" just feels right for me. Everyone has their own journey and it's not mine to direct.

I agree though, the most totally annoying thing about 99% of religious doctrine is the "license to use" nonhumans - Talk about "gOd" made in man's image! I always shudder to think of all the things "he" lets us do to nonhumans (and each other).

I'm celebrating today in the joy of nature's renewal and the infinite variation and wonder of earthly matter... I hope you have a fine day as well. <3

Oh... The point about family not asking about veganism? Hunch from experience: (they already know!) ;)

Cdlitestudio said...

Great post! There was a document that Christ lived a pretty much vegan diet. According to the scriptures Christ ate a mostly plant base and raw plant diet. Most of my family are celebrating today as Easter without the lamb. Wishing you all a very Blessed Easter day <3

First, a big Thank You to all for your lovely and thoughtful responses, and a huge apology for not replying sooner. Your comments were read and enjoyed (certainly not ignored), but life has this habit of getting in the way...

@veganelder: Thanks. I have to say though that my town is probably not representative (small, with a large wave of Dutch Christian immigrants coming over post WWII with conservative values held intact), so likely (hopefully?) not as reflective of typical Canadians as other Canadians!

@Tom: You're one of the very fine vegan Christians I was referring to. :)

And yes, thinking things through is so vital! Along the line of that famous adage "the unexamined life is not worth living", I think we should add "and the unexamined faith is not worth having." ;)

@Apps55...aka Janet, snort: You're welcome! I'm pleased it helped. I like to think that if there is an all-knowing and all loving God, that s/he is just as sad and upset and bewildered as we are. Human beings must be such a disappointment! Because if God is perfect and just, then animal use/abuse would be displeasing to him + her just as much.

@Bea: See comment to Janet above. Plus, yeah, are we made in God's image, or have we made Him (if God does exist, then s/he would be both him AND her IMO) in ours? Will we ever find out for sure? ;)

@Cdlitestudio: Thanks for dropping by! Yes, I've heard that assertion about Christ as well, and it makes sense to me. Hope you (and all of you above too!) had a wonderful Easter.

Again, my apologies for not getting back to this post sooner.

Joan Kyler said...

This is a wonderful post. I agree with it all. I once sent a letter to the minister at my ex-church and a packet of religion-based information and a CD with suggestions for a sermon on animal welfare and Christianity. He never even responded. I also called a Quaker group that was having a BBQ and asked if violence against animals didn't conflict with their pacifist beliefs. I do try to control myself - sometimes! But I did really want to know.

I even pointed out Genesis 1:29, which seems to get skipped when teaching the Bible. That's basis enough for me to agree that Christians should be vegans. And then there's 'Thou shall not kill', which, unless I'm reading incorrect translations, doesn't specify. It doesn't say 'Thou shall not kill only humans, unless they are part of a group of humans that your country decides they must eradicate or it's a human your society says must die'. It says 'Thou shall not kill'. Period. We are not granted the right to take a life, any life, human or otherwise.

Faith and following a religion, i.e. Christianity, is not easy. We are supposed to do what is right and we should want to do what is right. That means sacrifice. That means compassion. And maybe God is punishing us for killing and eating animals. We kill them and eat them and by eating them, we kill ourselves, both spiritually and physically. God gives people who eat animals more heart disease, cancer, and other illnesses. Isn't that a sign?

have gone vegan said in reply to Joan Kyler...

Hey Joan, thanks for chiming in! And sorry for taking a while to chime back. ;)

I hear ya about trying to spread the word to Christian churches. Back in 2011 I mailed out 16 Would Jesus Eat Meat Today? pamphlets to area churches and only got back one reply. They're a tough bunch to crack, methinks.

http://www.havegonevegan.com/2011/10/the-fowlfoulness-of-thanksgiving.html

And yes, there are even specific passages forbidding the killing of animals (e.g. Isaiah 66:3 He that killeth an ox is as if he slew a man; he that sacrificeth a lamb, as if he cut off a dog's neck; he that offereth an oblation, as if he offered swine's blood; he that burneth incense, as if he blessed an idol. Yea, they have chosen their own ways, and their soul delighteth in their abominations.) but those tend to be conveniently ignored as well. So sad. Although, not sure about the incense, snort.

I don't know though about the idea of God punishing us, as I like to think that s/he is just as offended by how animals are used and abused as we are. And it reminds me of how some Christians feel that AIDS is God's punishment as well, which I think is absurd. No, we likely just punish ourselves. And innocent beings of course. :(